{"id":92,"date":"2005-09-28T15:53:47","date_gmt":"2005-09-28T20:53:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost:8888\/index.php\/2005\/09\/28\/my-spiritual-retreat\/"},"modified":"2013-11-28T09:08:10","modified_gmt":"2013-11-28T14:08:10","slug":"my-spiritual-retreat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/2005\/09\/28\/my-spiritual-retreat\/","title":{"rendered":"My spiritual retreat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is something that I just don&#8217;t remember hearing much about until recently in my Christian life (again, it may have been being preached to me but I missed it).  The idea is to go away and really get alone with God.  Sounds like a perfectly normal and good idea.  Why haven&#8217;t I done it before?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;ve certainly put aside time to &#8220;be with God&#8221; in the past.  But I never went away by myself with nothing to do but be with God.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m wanting this article to be a bit of a report on what that experience was like, and also a report on the facilities where I stayed.<\/p>\n<h3>The experience on the retreat<\/h3>\n<p>Part of me balks at even writing the above header.  Christianity isn&#8217;t about chasing experiences.  But every Christian has experienced Christ.  And I&#8217;d bet most Christians have certain experiences in their past which anchor their faith.  God in his mercy does allow us to experience Him deeply.<\/p>\n<p>When I went on the retreat, I took a Friday off from work and spent most of the day Friday, Friday night, and part of Saturday doing nothing but praying; reading the Bible; reading passages from <em>My Utmost for His Highest<\/em>, <em>Morning and Evening<\/em>, and <em>Valley of Vision<\/em>; and working on the &#8220;assignment&#8221; given to me by my pastor.  It was just a wonderful time.<\/p>\n<p>The thing that really stood out to me was the luxury of being unhurried.  I was able to pray to God about a topic, and if I found my mind wandering I could take a break.  Maybe take a 20 minute nap and get back to it again with more focus.  I could get up and make some coffee while reading.  I could go for a walk and talk with God.  The wonderful pacing of the weekend just made me think, &#8220;Except for the fact that Vivian isn&#8217;t here, this is definitely the best vacation day I&#8217;ve ever taken.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I really want to do this again, but with my wife along.  I wouldn&#8217;t trade the alone time with God for anything, so I&#8217;m not talking about a &#8220;couples time with God&#8221; kind of getaway.  Maybe it could be a getaway where we get up in the morning and separate until lunch.  Then discuss what we&#8217;ve been doing, encourage each other, etc., and separate again until dinner.  Then spend the evening together, talking, praying, etc.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve never done anything like this, take it from me: it is well worth the time and effort.<\/p>\n<h3>The accomodations where I stayed<\/h3>\n<p>As I indicated earlier, one purpose I&#8217;m hoping this article will serve is to inform others in my local church (and\/or local area) about the accomodations where I stayed.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-arch.jpg\" rel=\"thumbnail\" title=\"Archway in the Sister's of St. Joseph's retreat center.\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-arch.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" alt=\"Archway\" class=\"imageframe imgalignleft\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-library.jpg\" rel=\"thumbnail\" title=\"Library at the Sisters of St. Joseph\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-library.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"266\" height=\"200\" alt=\"Library\" class=\"imageframe\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I stayed at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.findthedivine.com\/retreatcenter\/saintjosephs\/home.html\">Mount St. Joseph Center<\/a> in Wheeling West Virginia.  An order of nuns lives there, and they provide a set of 10 guest rooms plus an &#8220;apartment&#8221; like room that has its own bath and a small kitchenette of sorts.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-apartment.jpg\" rel=\"thumbnail\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-apartment.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"266\" height=\"200\" alt=\"sosj-apartment.jpg\" class=\"imageframe imgalignleft\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-apartment2.jpg\" rel=\"thumbnail\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-apartment2.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"297\" height=\"199\" alt=\"sosj-apartment2.jpg\" class=\"imageframe\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I stayed in the apartment, and found it to be both comfortable and sparse enough to be non-distracting.  It actually has a television, but I never bothered with it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-prayerwalk.jpg\" rel=\"thumbnail\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-prayerwalk.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"150\" height=\"200\" alt=\"sosj-prayerwalk.jpg\" class=\"imageframe imgalignleft\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-prayerwalk2.jpg\" rel=\"thumbnail\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/sosj-prayerwalk2.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"266\" height=\"200\" alt=\"sosj-prayerwalk2.jpg\" class=\"imageframe\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>One of the real niceties of this location is the grounds.  You can go out for a prayer walk and really just enjoy God&#8217;s presence and be undistracted.  One thing I found interesting is that they purposefully cut &#8220;trails&#8221; of sorts into the grass around the area so that you have a path to follow.<\/p>\n<p>I took advantage of these &#8220;trails&#8221; several times during my stay there.<\/p>\n<p>The nuns eat regular meals in a cafeteria style.  You are welcome to join them for $5 per meal.  It&#8217;s more convenient than having to pack and cook your own food, which removes another potential distraction.<\/p>\n<p>But the main reason that I picked this location over others was that they claimed to have a &#8220;prayer labyrinth.&#8221;  That sounded very interesting to me, but it turned out to be quite a bit different than what I had planned.  I&#8217;m saving a discussion of prayer labyrinths for my next article, however.<\/p>\n<p>I enjoyed this retreat immensely.  I&#8217;m planning on taking another in six months time, and I&#8217;ll probably return to this retreat center.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is something that I just don&#8217;t remember hearing much about until recently in my Christian life (again, it may have been being preached to me but I missed it). The idea is to go away and really get alone with God. Sounds like a perfectly normal and good idea. 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