{"id":87,"date":"2005-06-27T22:41:27","date_gmt":"2005-06-28T03:41:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost:8888\/index.php\/2005\/06\/27\/confessions-of-a-recovering-baptist-part-3-accountability-andor-small-groups\/"},"modified":"2013-11-28T09:08:11","modified_gmt":"2013-11-28T14:08:11","slug":"confessions-of-a-recovering-baptist-part-3-accountability-andor-small-groups","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/2005\/06\/27\/confessions-of-a-recovering-baptist-part-3-accountability-andor-small-groups\/","title":{"rendered":"Confessions of a recovering Baptist, part 3 &#8211; Accountability and\/or small groups"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Accountability groups were something that I wasn&#8217;t very sure of at first, but now they are a staple of my Christian walk.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;ve written before, my wife and I both grew up in Baptist churches but do not attend one now.  I have seen my beliefs somewhat changed from those I grew up with.<\/p>\n<p>Once again, I don&#8217;t want these articles to sound like I&#8217;m trashing Baptists or more specifically the churches that my wife and I grew up in, etc., etc.<\/p>\n<h3>Accountability and\/or small groups<\/h3>\n<p>This idea I don&#8217;t really see as all that Baptist or not.  It just may be that I never saw Christians being all that accountable in the specific churches that I was exposed to.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve come to the conclusion that in order to be effective in my attempts at sanctification, I really need the help of close Christian brothers and sisters.  In my current church, this help typically comes in the form of small group meetings and one-on-one (or perhaps two) accountability partnerships.<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, the Baptist church I previously attended attempted to put a small groups program in place and the parishoners (including myself) didn&#8217;t want it.  I wasn&#8217;t sure what the point of such small group meetings would be, and I didn&#8217;t see how it was going to be any different than the Sunday School classes we already had.  It felt like this was going to be one more thing I would need to commit to within the church structure.  And it wasn&#8217;t clear to me who would be leading the small group meetings.  I wasn&#8217;t too thrilled about it.<\/p>\n<p>Also, it seemed like the church was changing things because &#8220;that&#8217;s what&#8217;s popular in churches nowadays.&#8221;  Now, I never heard that from the leadership, but that&#8217;s what I thought was going on and it&#8217;s the rumor that I heard often enough.  And I&#8217;ve even seen people posting on websites claiming that accountability relationships (of the one-on-one deeply personal type) can actually be harmful.<\/p>\n<p>Our current church doesn&#8217;t have a Sunday School program, so the small group meetings are much more important than they might be in another setting.  But I was a bit skeptical when I first heard that this new church we were considering had these &#8220;small group&#8221; meetings.  I again, wanted to know, &#8220;what&#8217;s the purpose?&#8221;  And on a more serious note, is it a Biblical practice?  I don&#8217;t know of any passages in Acts showing the apostles or early church leaders meeting in accountability groups.<\/p>\n<p>So I had a talk with my Pastor about the practice.  And he basically helped me rethink the issue.  There are lots of commands in the New Testament that urge us to &#8220;bear one another&#8217;s burdens.&#8221;  How exactly is this to be done?  Small groups and accountability relationships are one way to help in that regard.  They are certainly not the <em>only<\/em> way it can be done, but they are a way.  And if you&#8217;re going to refuse to be part of a small group environment (or similar structure if your church doesn&#8217;t specifically have &#8220;small groups&#8221;) then how are you going to approach keeping that command?  You need to have a good answer to that question.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve experienced much spiritual growth in my life as a result of God&#8217;s grace working through my Christian brothers and sisters.  It usually happens in the context of small groups and in accountability relationships.  I have found them both to be an excellent help to me.  God has used these relationships to pour out his lavish grace on me, and I&#8217;ve very grateful.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Accountability groups were something that I wasn&#8217;t very sure of at first, but now they are a staple of my Christian walk.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[35,30,26,34],"class_list":["post-87","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-accountability","tag-baptist","tag-christianity","tag-small-groups"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=87"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2457,"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87\/revisions\/2457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=87"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=87"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rickandviv.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=87"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}